Thursday, 21 February 2013

Bondage gear – The art of flogging

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If you are reading this you most probably interest in bondage gear or the art of flogging.  Flogging has been around for thousands of years but only recently that couples have tried it out to enhance their sex life. If you are into bondage then you most probably have used or tried out a flogger on yourself or your partner.

BDSM partners have noted that every good sadist must have at least 2 floggers in his cupboard, as the flogger is seen as one of the key components when users practice BDSM.
When using a flogger for the first time you as the user or receiver should treat the device with caution. Not only can this bondage gear product give hours of fun but could also damage the users body if not use correctly.

We will explain all the safety issues involve using such a sex toy but we need to emphasized that the users need to take extreme caution if you don’t know what such a toy will do to your “slave”
I will now explain the different kind of flogger that is available in a bondage gear shop. A normal flogger has 2 distinct parts. One part with a hard grip attached to some kind of soft substance that we call the business end of the stick. The flogger is made from various materials. Leather is a firm favorite among users. The leather is soft to the touch. You can of course use different leathers, some are made from Elk, moose or Buffalo.

Another favourite has to be rubber. Most bondage gear material is made from rubber which is why most people believe that bondage gear is more for couples that enjoy so called Dark Sex. Chain is another material used when making a flogger. Not so well known but used by more extreme users and definitely made for first time users.

After choosing your flogger you need to think what sensation you may want your “slave” to feel.  The submissive may not enjoy it but that the point is it not.

After choosing your flogger, you need to decide the look and feel of the toy. The width determines the sensation. The thinner the tail the more sting the product will have on your victim. The more tails attached to the toy determines the sting. The general rule is that the more tails it has, the less the sting has. Most user go for a 16 – 24 inch flogger, but this all can be determined by the user.